Communication- Relationship

Im going to try and control the relationship
don't let me
Im going to give you the reins in a mutual understanding that if you need to you will take the initiative and communicate
is it bad that i let you initiate all the time?
non control
one person told me that it would be okay to go a whole day without talking
and two days without missing
until i have to call
but i m not used to inbetween
im used to all or nothing
please be patient as i try to figure this
inbetween ness out